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HOW I BECAME A SOMATIC SEXOLOGIST
As a writer, I have worked with taboos for over 25 years and have published a number of books on both the light and dark sides of sexuality. In addition, I have had thousands of clients in therapy or on self-development courses and have also developed my own approach to working through the body as a way to heal difficult emotions. Some of this work I have done using elements from erotic massage or tantric yoni massage. More than fifteen years ago, I came across a workshop in

Carsten
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HOW TO GIVE AN ORGASMIC HUG
My first orgasmic hug, and how I learned to give an orgasm from a verbal command.
Carsten Graff
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ADULTERY WITHOUT SHAME
Som sexolog hjælper jeg mine klienter til at skabe det bedst mulige sexliv. Ofte er det deres parforhold, der står i vejen for, at de kan nå det mål.

Carsten
6 min read


HOW I GOT RID OF JEALOUSY
Jalousi er en følelse der altid giver dig det modsatte af det du gerne vil have. Lærer du at slippe jalousi får du derfor altid det du gerne vil have.

Carsten
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HOW MONEY BOUGHT ME LOVE
This is the story of how I explored the life of a London sugardaddy while learning how money can buy love. Maria works for me but on...

Carsten
9 min read


MY SUBMISSIVE PARTNER
Here, you can learn about an approach to love and sex that breaks almost every convention and taboo of traditional partnerships. A humorous photoshoot with 3 submissive women. Maria is acting as the footstool. I've always been turned on by taking a sexually dominant role and have had many sexually submissive partners. Most of them couldn't get enough of my control – they loved being tied up, getting spanked, and being told exactly what to do. There was just one small problem.

Carsten
4 min read


ENERGYSEX WITH A FEMALE CLIENT
An account of how I discovered a highly unconventional way to help a troubled woman handle jealousy. Culturally, we condemn paid sex, but...

Carsten
10 min read
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