Tantric, Erotic, Yoni Massage for Women in Copenhagen
INTIMATE SELF-DEVELOPMENT FOR WOMEN IN COPENHAGEN
What is Hands-on Sexology?
A practical sexologist can help you learn about yourself and explore sexuality and pleasure. We work through conversation, physical work, sensory exercises, stimulation, oil massage of erogenous zones, touch, sexological massage and concrete exercises. Together, we find the approach that best harmonizes with your wishes and goals.
FIRST TIME?
The fact that we work physically means that it is central that there is both an empathetic and trusting connection between therapist and client. Many of my new clients need to meet before they make a decision, and that is completely understandable. If you are new, we therefore always start with a conversation over a cup of coffee or tea. If you would like to consider if this is right for you and come back another day, we will end the meeting there – and the introduction is free.
PRACTICAL OPPORTUNITIES
When women choose hands-on sexology, it is usually because they want to:
🔹 Explore sexuality in a safe setting without a partner's expectations.
🔹 Increase their sexual clarity and ability to set sexual boundaries.
🔹 Release shame, performance anxiety, and increase sexual self-esteem.
🔹 Strengthen or awaken libido and rediscover pleasure.
🔹 Gain a deeper understanding of their sexual identity and profile.
🔹 Release physical and sexual tension and trauma.
🔹 Release shame and tension in the genitals.
🔹 Explore intimate touch that is not based on a sexual agenda.
🔹 Explore energetic arousal that is not based on desire.
🔹 Release difficult emotions related to shame and fear of intimacy.
HANDS-ON SEXOLOGY FOR WOMEN
Roles, your partner and guidance
HOW WE START
Before a physical session, we have a conversation where we talk about what you want to let go of, what you want to feel or practice, and what you want to take home. We can also talk about your sexual profile, desires, dreams and longings and about the status of your current intimate life. It is important that we get to know each other and that we both feel that we have the right, trusting foundation. If you feel very vulnerable, we can also choose to wait with parts of the conversation until after the physical session.
MY ROLE
As a facilitator and instructor, I always remain fully clothed during a session. I can guide and provide massage and stimulation, but do not engage in mutual stimulation. How I otherwise act is agreed upon before we move from a conversation to physical treatment.
YOUR PARTNER
You are welcome to bring your partner. If you have a trusting relationship, it can provide more security and, at the same time, make it easier to take what you learn home. In addition, it can also be a productive way of exploring your intimate connection with your partner. The partner can both assist, and you are welcome to interact sexually during the treatment. However, there are also clients who prefer to participate alone. On the one hand, the partner can take up a lot of space and make it difficult to let go. In addition, a partner in the room can also make it more difficult to let go of old patterns and habits.
SEXUAL GUIDANCE
We also offer hand-on sexual guidance, where you learn more about stimulating or massaging a man. If this is what you are looking for I can invite a male practice partner who lies on the massage table while I give instructions and he gives you feedback. You are, of course, also welcome to bring your own partner as a practice partner.
PRACTICAL SEXOLOGY FOR WOMEN
Structure of a session
Physical sessions take place in one of our treatment rooms. The room is decorated neutrally and is intended to make you relax. You can choose to undress alone and lie on the table with a blanket over your body. When you are ready, I will enter the room. How a session proceeds is always individual, but the following is an approach I often use with first-time clients.
HEATING
We start with some very simple touches. It can be touching through blankets or directly on the body. Feeling the touch of a new person in an intimate situation creates an intensity that you will rarely feel with a partner. Your task is to notice how your body and sexuality react, and I ask about your bodily reactions. You can practice sensing your boundaries, desire, pleasure or notice whether you are starting to perform or whether you are good at receiving without giving anything in return. I can also ask you to practice saying “stop” or “continue” or ask for a different type of touch with a different intention. We can also explore so-called "body-mapping", where I ask whether there are places you enjoy being touched, or places that you do not want to be touched. There may also be areas of the body that make you insecure, but that you still want to challenge through touch and attention.
TOUCHING THE WHOLE BODY
When you are ready, we can remove the blanket partially or completely. I will then touch your entire body (including intimate areas) with a neutral and caring approach. If you are tense, I can guide your breathing and help you relax and enjoy the touch. The touch is intended to bring your attention to all areas of the body and feel that they have the same relevance and importance.
MASSAGE/TOUCH
As the next step, I give you a relaxing oil massage on your back, arms and legs. I ask about your well-being, and if I have any doubts, I ask about your needs. When you are completely relaxed, I massage you more intimately, and when you are ready, you can turn around and get a massage and a close touch on the front of your body. In this part of the session, I also massage your erogenous zones, but without stimulating and without the intention of provoking a specific reaction. The goal of the massage is to make you relax further.
EROTIC MASSAGE
If you feel ready, you can choose to be stimulated sexually. This can be done both internally and externally. I use my hands and fingers, and if you wish, we can also use a massager. This can be done in silence, while you guide me or while we talk about what you feel. Some clients reach their climax during this part, which is, of course, completely fine.
CONCLUSION
After the session, we can chat a bit in the living room and share reflections and realizations. I never have other clients waiting for me to finish a session. If you need time and peace to settle in, that is of course possible.
CLIENT ABOUT CARSTEN
"Carsten was fantastic! He was contagious with his calmness and awakened both emotions and desires that I didn't even know I had. Pure healing for the soul." Tina
Carsten gives a sensual massage to a woman in the clinic in Copenhagen
