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FREE SIQ TEST
How high is your sexual intelligence (SIQ)? Test yourself in 5 to 10 minutes and get the answer right away.
Test your sexual maturity level with our free and anonymous SIQ test. The test was developed based on our work in our field, where we have studied which sexual characteristics mean that our clients have a good and developing sex life.
The test is free and anonymous: We do not collect any personal data and you do not have to provide your email.
Once you have answered the questions, you will immediately receive the result and can see your SIQ score on the screen.
You can also choose to get specific advice on how to increase your score.
You and your partner can take the test together, but don't see it as a competition. The test can give you a sense of direction, but there are many uncertainties, such as the person being tested's honesty and self-awareness.
How to take the SIQ test
Our sexual intelligence test is divided into four fundamental areas that together make up your overall score.
The test examines 4 key areas. These are:
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Sexual awareness: Your clarity with the subtle signals, desires, and boundaries of your sexuality.
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Sexual Empathy: How good you are at sensing your partner's needs and boundaries.
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Sexual communication: Your ability to express your needs, desires, and boundaries.
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Sexual integration: How your sexuality relates to the rest of your personality and values.
Carrying out the test
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If you want an accurate picture, you must answer honestly and based on who you are rather than who you would like to be.
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Make sure to stay calm and stay in a place where it is easy to notice.
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Talk to your partner for help if you can, but don't think too long about each question.
Get your personal SIQ report
Once you have completed the test, you will receive a total score for your SIQ. You will also receive a brief analysis of your strengths and development opportunities. You can save the result as a screenshot for your own use or to show to us or another sexologist.
Frequently asked questions about SIQ
What is SIQ?
SIQ stands for Sexual Intelligence Quotient. It is a measure of your ability to integrate body, emotions and consciousness into your sexual life. Where IQ is about your ability to think logically, SIQ is about your sexual, bodily and relational intelligence.
What is a normal SIQ score?
As with standard intelligence tests, most people fall somewhere in the middle. A score between 90 and 110 is considered average.
Why is SIQ important?
If you have high sexual intelligence, you will often be able to express yourself more freely on a sexual level while maintaining sexual security for both yourself and your partner.
Is the test scientific?
Our SIQ test is based on modern sexological principles of somatic awareness and emotion-focused theory. Although it provides a strong indication of your sexual profile, it should be seen as a tool for reflection and not as a clinical diagnosis. If you would like a more detailed assessment of your sexual competencies, you are welcome to book a consultation with us.








