About Squirting Orgasms from Hands-on Sexology in Valby in Copenhagen
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WHY SQUIRT ORGASM?
Many men and women contact us to learn more about squirting orgasms. Women want to know how to get sufficiently aroused and men ask about techniques to make their partner squirt. It is common for women to want to please their man and some therefore choose - partially or completely - to simulate their pleasure. A squirting orgasm cannot be simulated and is therefore the ultimate proof that a woman is experiencing genuine and unadulterated passion. Because of this, many couples see a woman's squirt as the ultimate proof of authentic and mutual desire and passion.
MYTHS AND FACTS
Unfortunately, there are quite a few myths surrounding squirting orgasms. Many experts in the field claim they can make all women squirt. We have seen quite a few experts perform their techniques with mixed results. This is natural, as studies show that only between 20 and 40% of women can squirt. Whether a woman can squirt is about her anatomy, relaxation, confidence, and sensitivity. Beyond this, no technique works for everyone. Maria can squirt if she is very turned on, if she feels completely safe, and if we use a powerful clitoral vibrator at the same time. The classic "two-finger technique" on the G-spot (the inside of the vaginal wall) works for some, but not for Maria.
WHAT IS A SQUIRT ORGASM?
A squirting orgasm is a female ejaculation that occurs when a woman releases fluid from her urethra during sexual stimulation, often in conjunction with an orgasm. The fluid comes primarily from the Skene's glands (the female "prostate") and can feel like a forceful release. It is not the same as vaginal lubrication, nor is it urine – although it may contain traces of urine. While some women find it intense and liberating, not all women experience a squirting orgasm as the most powerful form of orgasm.
A GUIDE TO SQUIRT ORGASM
If you are a man and you are with a woman who wants to squirt, you must of course be able to turn her on and make her completely relax. In addition to that, you must be able to create a sexual space in which she does not feel subject to expectations. Make sure that she lies on a surface that can withstand water. We often use a thick towel, but if the woman squirts very heavily, it is not always enough and therefore it may be a good idea to have plastic under the towel.
The classic technique: Stimulate the G-spot
Most people use two fingers that are inserted 3-5 cm into the vagina and curved towards the stomach. There are numerous videos on the internet that show the technique in detail. Combine it with clitoral stimulation for better effect. But if that doesn't work and she is open to it, you can use a vibrator that stimulates the inside of the vaginal wall. Pay attention to her signals and if she feels like she is close to peeing, it is a positive signal. If she gets close to squirting, you can help by encouraging her to relax and enjoy while she lets go of control. Be aware that some people find it easier to squirt if they have a full bladder and for others it is better with an empty one. If she doesn't squirt, don't see it as a defeat. This is a game that is about exploring pleasure and the best kind of sex is when there is not a very clearly defined goal.
DO YOU WANT TO LEARN MORE?
If you would like to expand your knowledge about sexuality, you are always welcome to contact us. When we do hands-on sexual guidance, I show some of our clients how Maria squirts, but you have to remember that you can't necessarily use the same technique successfully on your own partner.