Sensual Sexology for Couples in Copenhagen
EXPERIENCED SEXOLOGY IN COPENHAGEN
Better connection and more intimacy
Most people go to a sexologist to get help solving a problem, but with us you can also have an experience that opens up new approaches to intimacy. This is a process that allows a couple to create deeper contact, more intimacy, more connection and more freedom without being disturbed by everyday routines and expectations.
You decide the length of the process, which can last between 60 and 120 minutes. In the massage part, Maria gives massage to the man and Carsten to the woman. Before you make an appointment, you are welcome to come by for a free and non-binding conversation, and we can also do the conversation online.
If you have specific questions about how a massage takes place, in relation to pace, undressing and what distinguishes the process from traditional tantric Lingam and Yoni massage, we recommend that you read our questions and answers section on the massage page.
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CONVERSATION
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INTIMACY
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WARMING UP
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INTEGRATION
THE 4 STEPS OF THE PROCESS
Session structure (60 - 120 minutes)
Phase 1 – Arrival and joint interview
Over tea or coffee we will talk about how we work and go through the entire process with you in a calm and safe environment. We will talk about your boundaries, desires, and visions for your intimate life together as well as how you each experience presence, contact, and sexuality. We will also explore whether there is anything in particular you would like to get out of the process and what you would like to take away from the experience – both as individuals and as a couple.
Phase 2 – Warm-up and exploration
After the conversation, we do some small exercises that are adapted to your relationship, boundaries and way of being intimate together. The purpose is to create greater security, focus, and physical contact, so that it will be easier for you to give in to the massage in phase 3. In practical terms, the exercises take place with one of you lying partially undressed or covered with a blanket on the table, while the other is guided by Carsten through various forms of conscious touch and contact.
The exercises can, among other things, help you to feel your own and your partner's boundaries, needs and desires more clearly, as well as create more peace and presence in the intimate sphere.
Phase 3 – Sensual and sexological body treatment
In the third phase, we work more directly with sensuality, energy, and physical contact through a shared massage experience. In practical terms, this can be done where we give a massage to one of you and the other participates, or you both receive a massage simultaneously on two tables in the same room.
Phase 4 – Integration and joint reflection
We end the session with a conversation where we focus on integrating the experience.
We are talking about, among other things:
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What did you feel in your body?
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How did the presence affect you?
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what created security and connection
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how you responded to receiving and letting go
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which moments felt particularly vivid or intimate
The conversation helps you maintain the energy and contact that the experience has created, so that it can be more easily taken home into everyday life and your further sex life. For many couples, this becomes the beginning of a more sensual, free and vibrant way of being together.