PRACTICAL SEXOLOGICAL COUNSELING
FEEL FREE TO FEEL PLEASURE
More than 25 years of exploring all the shadows and nooks and crannies of sexuality.
Anonymous conversations about the forbidden, the unconventional and the destructive
With me, we do not speak from theory but from practical experience. For more than 25 years, I have explored and developed a thorough knowledge of all aspects of intimacy - both in monogamous relationships and in open relationships with many partners. As a sexologist, I have served as a counselor in experimental sexuality and as a body therapist with a focus on desire, boundaries and conscious touch. In addition, I have a thorough knowledge of the dark sides of sexuality and have written a large number of books on the subject.
SHADOW SIDE THERAPY
Anonymous conversations about the forbidden and destructive
Many people have thoughts, fantasies, and desires or aspects of their consciousness that they experience as shameful, wrong, or destructive. If you keep parts of your life a secret, it is often difficult to understand yourself clearly. Shame and fear can make it difficult to examine what you really feel, want, or need. With me, you get a safe space where it is possible to think out loud, speak freely, and gain greater self-insight - regardless of the topic. For many, it is a relief to be able to talk openly about what they are carrying. For others, the conversation becomes the beginning of a process where they find a direction that is both more authentic, more responsible, and more considerate of themselves and others.
I do not keep records, and you do not need to provide your full identity to book an appointment.
UNCONVENTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS
Counseling regarding relationships that fall outside traditional norms
Many people do not thrive in traditional relationships or experience feelings, needs and relationships that do not fit into society's standard models. With me you can talk freely about your thoughts, desires, challenges, and dilemmas without shame and receive counseling that helps you navigate more consciously outside the norms.
OPEN RELATIONSHIP
How do you handle freedom, jealousy, honesty, and boundaries in an open relationship?
Open relationships can create both great freedom and great emotional challenges. Conversations can cover everything from initial considerations to concrete conflicts, insecurities, and questions of trust. READ MORE
INFIDELITY
Can one understand infidelity without condemning it?
Infidelity often stirs up strong emotions in everyone involved. Conversations can be about understanding the background to an affair, dealing with guilt and shame, or finding a way forward – either together or separately. READ MORE
SUGAR DATING & PROSTITUTION
How do you navigate relationships where finances and intimacy meet?
These relationships are often surrounded by strong attitudes and taboos. I have been in a number of relationships where finances played a major role. The conversations can be about boundaries, ethics, motivation, emotional consequences and the desire to make conscious choices.
DOMINANCE RELATIONSHIP
Power, trust and responsibility in relationships with asymmetrical roles.
For many people, dominance and submission are about much more than sex. Conversations can be about communication, consent, boundaries, responsibility, dynamics and how to create a safe environment for both parties. READ ABOUT OUR HANDS-ON TEACHING
POLYAMORY
How do you create more loving relationships without losing yourself?
Polyamory can be very intimate, but it also requires honesty, communication, and emotional maturity. Conversations can include jealousy, structure, expectations, and a sense of belonging. READ MORE
SEXUAL IDENTITY & FORBIDDEN FANTASIES
How do you deal with thoughts and fantasies that you have never dared to talk about?
Many people walk alone with aspects of their sexuality that they are ashamed of or do not understand. The conversation is not about judging, but about creating clarity, self-awareness and a more relaxed relationship with oneself.
AGE GAP RELATIONSHIPS
What special challenges and opportunities arise when love crosses generations? I have lived in relationships with women who were both 30 years older and younger than me. Relationships with a large age difference often encounter prejudice from those around them. The conversations can be about the balance of power, life stages, family relationships and creating a sustainable relationship on your own terms.
MULTIPARTNER RELATIONSHIPS
How do you make complex relationships work in practice?
Some people live in networks of relationships, stepfamilies, or other non-traditional constellations. The conversations can be about communication, expectations, conflicts, and emotional well-being.