MARIA & CARSTEN
OUR LIFE TOGETHER
Our relationship is first and foremost founded on a deep friendship, mutual respect and a high degree of openness. Since we met in 2019, we have lived in a jealousy-free and open relationship, where honesty and clear communication are key elements. In our dynamic, Maria often takes a submissive role and thrives on Carsten taking the lead – both socially and sexually. At the same time, she is also a person with strong values, clear opinions and a clear ability to set boundaries. Her behavior is based on trust and a conscious choice – not on passivity.
We share a strong love relationship and a correspondingly strong sexual attraction that continues to develop. We have many common interests and work well together in everyday life, which means that we can do everything together for long periods without losing closeness or enjoyment of each other's company. At the same time, we also have a lot of room for individuality. We don't have many mutual friends, and occasionally we travel separately for shorter or longer periods. This creates space for longing, renewal and personal development – and gives lots of new energy to the relationship when we meet again.
Many of our clients describe that they experience a special calm in our shared presence, and that it feels safe and natural to talk to us about both personal and sensitive topics. For us, our private relationship and our professional work are connected in the sense that we ourselves live the values that we teach and work with: honesty, bodily awareness, responsibility and relational clarity.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
I would like to visit you but I am a little nervous.
It's completely normal – most people are nervous the first time they visit us. You can always start with a non-binding and free intro conversation - both online or by showing up. If you choose to book a session, we will start by sitting in our small living room in the clinic and talking together, after which we will proceed at your pace. There is no requirement that anything specific should happen and we can always choose an approach that suits you. The most important thing is that you feel safe and relaxed.
Is it confidential?
Yes, 100%. Everything that happens with us is completely confidential. We only record necessary appointments but do not keep records or store information about why our clients visit us.
Can I meet one of you alone?
We can both meet clients individually. However, as a submissive, Maria prefers that Carsten initiate activities and talk a little with the client before a session.
Do you have sex with your clients?
We engage in a certain degree of physical and intimate interaction, which means that we can touch, massage and hug our clients and that they can also touch us. When we give massage or practical sexual guidance, stimulation may also be involved. However, our focus is always on the client's sexual development and not on receiving or giving stimulation for the sake of pleasure. However, our boundaries may also vary depending on how well we know a client and therefore you are always welcome to make suggestions and ideas when we have met. With us, there are no wrong questions, only unclear expectations.
We are a couple. Can we have sex with each other for a session?
Yes. We regularly have couples who want to expand their sexual repertoire and who would like instruction or guidance while they are interacting sexually. This approach can often be beneficial if a couple wants us to teach new techniques or if they want feedback on their sexual performance.
What are your sexual profiles?
MARIA: Submissive and heterosexual (60 kg & 170 cm)
CARSTEN: Dominant and heterosexual (85 kg & 190 cm)
What is your motivation?
There are many reasons why we work together the way we do. Partly, it gives positive energy to our relationship when we invite others into our world. We also help many people with their personal development, while running a meaningful clinic. When we work, there is always a positive vibe because we never do anything with our clients that we wouldn't also do for free.