HELP FOR THE UNFAITHFULL
If you are cheating, I can help you gain more clarity and make the right decisions. For more than 20 years, I have helped people seeking approaches to sex and love that involve multiple partners.
ADVICE ON INfidelity
If you are unfaithful, you rarely have anyone you can talk openly with about your longings and worries. Many of my unfaithful clients first and foremost need a space where they can think and speak freely, but also get help to solve the problems that often arise when you live a double life and have multiple partners. Some need to learn to deal with guilt, become better at standing up for their needs or talk about the consequences if the truth comes out. With me you can have a confidential conversation in private and you are of course welcome to be anonymous.
MY PHILOSOPHY ABOUT INfidelity
In the blog below you can read more about why I do not believe that infidelity can be reduced to something uniquely unethical and harmful. Relationships often do not allow for the necessary honesty and freedom, and many therefore cheat to survive on a sensual level or to regain freedom, dignity and desire.
MAIL FROM AN UNFAILED CUSTOMER
“For many years I have been ashamed of being unfaithful to my husband. When I sought help from professionals, I could always feel that they were judging me – even if they pretended not to. I love my husband, but he and I have not felt like having sex with each other for many years. Despite that, he does not want an open relationship. With Carsten, I was treated with great respect. His understanding and acceptance have not only helped me to have a deeper relationship with my husband, but also with myself and with my secret lover.”