COUNSELING DOMINANCE & SUBMISSION
Do you want to learn about dominance, understand your role as dominant or submissive, or develop the dynamics in your relationship?
With us you get professional BDSM training, where the focus is on trust, communication, security and love. We offer lessons in dominance and submission for both couples and singles, regardless of whether you are a beginner or already have experience.
Carsten has been dominant his entire life, and his approach is based on care, leadership, and devotion rather than technique and tools. Together with Maria, his submissive, he offers personal sessions where you learn how dominance can function as a healthy and stable dynamic in everyday life.
What do you learn with us?
🔹 Personal mapping
Identify your role as dominant or submissive – and understand what it means for you in practice.
🔹 Relationship types and dynamics
Learn about different types of relationships and find out what suits you.
🔹 Communication and boundaries
Teaching open dialogue, protocols, boundary setting and contracts that create security and strengthened dynamics.
🔹 Safety and care
Learn about responsibility, care, aftercare and understand key states such as top and subspace.
🔹 Daily rituals and routines
Get ideas for sexual and social routines that strengthen daily connection and role division.
🔹 Symbolism and practice
We review symbols, practices and talk about toys, commands, diaries, rituals, etc.
Our roles during teaching
At a meeting, Maria is present as Carstens' submissive. During the lesson, he will demonstrate different approaches to dominance and techniques on her. As a client, you have the opportunity to practice with Maria and can of course ask anything.
The role of the dominant
Many people think that a dominant is characterized by being tough and demanding, but a good dominant must also be a good leader and have empathy, be strict, decisive, caring and imaginative. As a dominant, you must be good at planning, good at sensing the submissive's limits and good at controlling and leading the submissive. It's about creating a healthy symbiotic state where both live out their desires and create the security and trust that makes it possible to develop to the maximum.
The role of the submissive
It is a common perception that a submissive is weak and easy to manipulate, but in reality, it is the opposite. A good submissive is a strong and confident person who enjoys the uncertainty that comes with letting go of a dominant they respect and trust. Surrendering sexually or socially can be both developmental, therapeutic and meditative.
Dominance Teaching in Valby in Copenhagen
If you would like more information, you can write to us or book a preliminary meeting where we will talk about your situation and plan a course that suits your profiles.