LOVE LIFE AS A WORKPLACE

The story of why and how Maria and I turned our love and sex life into our workplace, and how it affected our relationship.

For over 30 years, I have been exploring the boundaries of my sex and love life. In one of my many experiments, four years ago I established a harem with 11 women. In the harem, I met Maria, and from the start, she and I had a very strong love connection. Due to Maria's submissive profile, she is not only my primary partner, but at times we also live together as dominant and submissive.

    In early 2024, I had a conversation with Maria about her sexual fantasies and asked if there were any fantasies she had not explored.

“I'm turned on by the idea of you renting me out for sex with other men,” she said.

“I have occasionally invited other men to have sex with you,” I said. “Does money have to be involved?”

“If the men paid, I would feel more pressure to perform,” she said. “That would turn me on.”

“I'm not short of money and see no reason to earn money that way,” I said. “Besides, it's illegal to rent others out for sex in Denmark. If we are to explore your fantasy, it is therefore important that you are the one who gets the money and that you spend it on yourself.”

MARIA'S PROFILE

Based on this conversation, we decided to explore girlfriend rental and created a profile on an escort site. In the profile, I wrote a little about my Maria's prostitute fantasy and wrote that she not only offered sex but that she is also a certified masseuse and could therefore also give full-body massages with a happy ending.

                When the profile was published, I was sure that no one would respond. We were a couple, and I couldn't imagine that men who buy sex would want to deal with an escort girl's partner. However, it soon became clear that I was terribly wrong. Already on the same day, we received lots of inquiries. Many were excited about the idea of being invited into a couple's home. In addition, there were many who wanted lessons and to draw on my experiences with women or my experiences with dominance. In addition to inquiries from men, we also received inquiries from women and couples. Some had sexual problems, and others were looking for new inspiration for their sex lives.

THE RENTAL ITSELF

When the customers began to arrive, I welcomed them at the door while Maria got ready in a small apartment we have on the second floor of my house. In the apartment, the guest and I sat down in a couple of armchairs while Maria served coffee or tea. She was either naked or wearing lingerie, and after she had served us, she knelt silently on a mattress on the floor in front of us. We then had a little chat about what was going to happen within the agreed time frame, after which I went through Maria's boundaries and erogenous zones. In addition, I explained the difference between having sex with a submissive partner and a so-called normal partner. In short, Maria is turned on by taking on the role of a kind of sex doll who can massage, lie still, be very active, or satisfy completely selflessly. Because she is so submissive, she says nothing if you stimulate her incorrectly. This means that you have to be extra attentive and know a little about her personality so as not to overstep her boundaries.

Because interest in girlfriend rental was so high, we could have had 5-10 guests a day, but I set the limit at two. To make sure that the job as an escort girl didn't stress her out, I made sure that she only had sex with guests who could really turn her on. If the chemistry wasn't good, I offered them a massage instead, gave them practical sex advice, or taught them how to take on the role of dominant.

PRACTICAL SEXOLOGY

As we continued to have clients, both Maria and I soon realized that sex work did not turn us on. Having visits from men who were horny and eager to satisfy their desires was fun at first, but gradually it became both empty and meaningless. On the other hand, we both had a positive experience when we had clients who wanted to learn something new or enjoyed using us as therapists. Against this backdrop, we stopped renting out girlfriends, but created a profile under the heading “Practical Sexology” where we gave erotic massages, sexological counseling, practical sexual guidance, and helped couples and singles who had sexual problems. Working in this way gave us both a lot of energy, and since we started, we have continuously developed the concept and come up with new ideas for how we can help our clients.

At a traditional sexology clinic, you can only approach sex theoretically, but with our approach, we could talk, advise, and experiment. Sex is an emotional and sensual activity, so it made sense to work with a practical and sensual approach. Both singles and couples tend to repeat their sexual patterns endlessly. Maria and I are constantly exploring our own sexual dynamics, so it was quite easy for us to inspire others and help them rethink their sex lives and experiment more freely.